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November 2, 2024. 23rd Anniversary

 There are children, but there is no marriage.   Susie didn't bring up our anniversary with me once.  I didn't bring it up with her.   I bought flowers.  And a sign that says Grateful.   I am grateful.  But I'm mostly sad.  Tomorrow is a sad day for me.  My plan is to get out of the house early and stay away from the house for a  long time.  Which I will. Being rejected by Susie is painful.  But I think being rejected by Simon and Esther would be utterly devastating.   If I move to another house I wonder if they would ever want to see me.   Maybe they wouldn't.  But maybe I have to be OK with that in order for me to move on and have a full life again.  I don't right now.  I have a life.  But my life is lacking.  I have a full life, most of the time, but there is darkness and loneliness at the fringes.  Loneliness that drags me down.  I try to fight it but I d...